Which of the following is a characteristic of people with poor self-esteem?

• A. Self-critical, ignores positive qualities, uses negative words, blames self for wrongdoing
• B. Self-confident and optimistic
• C. Seeks constant praise
• D. Avoids feedback

Answer: (A)

Poor self-esteem shows up in negative self-talk and a consistent pattern of doubting oneself. People with low self-esteem are often self-critical, focus on flaws rather than strengths, use negative words to describe themselves, and blame themselves for problems or mistakes. This habit of harsh inner commentary reinforces a view that they’re unworthy or incapable, making it hard to accept praise or recognize any achievements.

That pattern fits the described characteristics well. Being self-confident and optimistic reflects healthy self-esteem, not poor self-esteem. Seeking constant praise signals insecurity and a need for external validation, rather than a stable sense of worth. Avoiding feedback can indicate defensiveness or fear, which may accompany low self-esteem in some cases, but it doesn’t define the typical self-views and internal dialogue associated with having poor self-esteem.